thank you for the reply gearhart.
I take some comfort it was only a day ban (it just said banned on the message and I have no idea who placed the ban).
Yes, my friend was banned for an hour earlier. That's why we censored our spray tags to make sure there would be no issues.
I would still love to email one of you guys my tags and get a clear understanding of what exactly is not ok. I ask in the server but i just get told off for arguing. I'm not arguing. i just want to understand what is ok and what isn't