Unban Request:: Fielding

[Fielding 1st MRB]

Name: Fielding

Steam I.D: STEAM_0:1:50384215

Date & Time of ban: February 10th 2023

Admin who banned you: WO. R. Martinez [1st MRB]

Reason we should Unban: I miss this community, I miss my friends and the people who were apart of my everyday life for the last few years. Unfortunately due to actions preformed by myself they led to a dishonorable discharge from the 1st MRB. It has haunted me since, and I would like to take this opportunity to apologize to the community as a whole, the command staff as well as my friends both unit members and BAR and pubbers alike. Some were aware, others were not of a very difficult time in my life, I lost my first child, as well as the relationship before it and for a long time I felt my life was falling apart around me. I chose a very poor way to cope through this time abusing drugs, anti depressants and alcohol on a daily and nightly basis which both numbed me and also turned me into someone I am not. Essentially taking Gizmo and tossing him in a bathtub if you will. Now be it as it may I was going through crisis and trauma it does not excuse my actions or display of character as well as the negative light I allowed to to be shined on the unit as a member of the command staff at the time. However, what's done is done and since having been removed as an officer and memeber I have taken the last few months to attend a facility and therapy and to get my head straight. Its been a painful year, and its been painful being away from the community and friends who were a major part of my life and I would like to come back and be able to play with you all.

 

Thank you. 

Fielding

[Samuels 1st MRB]

Fielding,

 

Thank you for your heartfelt apology and for being honest about the challenges you faced during that difficult time.  We understand that you went through a lot of pain and made choices that you now deeply regret. It takes courage to admit mistakes and work on self-improvement. We're glad to hear that you have taken the initiative to seek help.  It's important to prioritize your well-being and address the underlying issues that led to those actions.

 

While the consequences of your actions resulted in your discharge, we believe in the power of personal growth and above-all, second chances. It's evident that you miss the community and the friendships you formed with all of us, and I don't doubt many of us have missed you as well.

 

Rebuilding trust takes time, but if you continue on this path of self-improvement and demonstrate the changes you've made, it's possible to find a way back into the community.  I encourage you to reach out, and join us on Discord and the Servers to begin the path.

 

Actions speak louder than words. Continue to show the commitment that you have always put forward to being a positive and contributing member of the community once again.

 

Your Request is Approved, the bans to your account will be lifted, and the Dishonorable Discharge will be converted to a General Discharge in order to comply with existing Unit Policies for Unban Requests.

 

I wish you the best on your path, and I hope to see you back in Discord with us soon.

 

Signed,

1stLt. J. Samuels 

Company Commanding Officer